emotional scars often become wounds again.

"Stop trying so hard; it only drains the energy you need. Trust me when I say the images will not go away. You must use your faith to accept that Tim is gone and you may not know why. Again, God gives us all an inordinate amount of Love and we must draw upon that in times such as these. You still hurt for James, and this tragedy brings that event closer to home. Wounds to the heart are like those to any other part of our body, they cause scarring. The emotional scars don't show until something reminds us of the cause. You are strong! You just need time to understand that life for you will go on and you have much work to do in God's name."